It is so funny when people ask you what you do for a living and you have more than one answer, in some cases (like mine) a lot more than just one, and somehow you are seen as a "wannabe" or someone rude and arrogant who wants to show off by painting a very vain image of yourself in a delusional and successful way, but in reality you are just someone who actually does the things you want to do! There is a HUGE difference between "wishing" and "doing" and the difference is so ridiculously simple it pisses everyone off: some of us are "DOING the DO" instead of "WISHING the WISH". What really makes people see you negatively when you tell them you do so many things is the fact that they are the just whishing when you are doing, but since when are you responsible for their decisions? If they can't change and FINALLY start doing, it's their problem and their problem only! You have NOTHING to do with that ("do" being the operative word).
I couldn't care less when people react negatively toward me when I tell them everything I do, it only confirms who is the go-getter and who is procrastinating... it actually makes me feel good, better. If they see me as a delusional vain person I see them as weak individuals who instead of spending their time and energy doing everything they whish they could do, they rather spend their time judging, analyzing and pointing their fingers at the ones doing. One thing I learned in this life: I should always spend my precious time doing EVERYTHING I love, focused on everything that makes me happy, alive and fulfilled, if I have to do MANY things to feel this way it only means that I'm capable of a lot - and little bit hard to please.
The most reassuring thing in life is when you realize that only what YOU think of YOURSELF actually matters. You can't change what people think but you can change your life by what YOU are thinking (and doing, specially), it's like when your Mom believes in your talent but you don't. She's always asking you how your projects are going when you actually didn't start any of them! That only proves that YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!
Of course it's great when your mom or someone you love and really care about believes in you and gives you support, BUT if you don't believe in yourself that is all for nothing! So yes, do everything you WANT, BELIEVE in yourself and let the others wish... you are focused in your own life, it pisses them off that you are one step ahead of them, while they are judging you are doing...
Let them judge, you are too focused on yourself to even care about it... While they are pointing their fingers at you, you are pointing your finger at the sky because the sky is the limit when you actually give yourself the luxury of being EVERYTHING YOU ARE!
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